Spiritually Preparing Yourself for True Love

from Psychics Universe

loveIf you’ve been looking for love, you’re not alone. Just do a Google search on “how to find true love” and you’ll get nearly half a billion hits. Yet for all the books, articles and advice floating around, so many people find themselves drifting from one failed relationship to the next, being hurt time and time again. Others find themselves completely alone.

Chances are, the reason love isn’t working for you is because you’re not spiritually prepared for it.

What if You’re Not Spiritually Prepared?

No matter how great two people are, both need to be spiritually prepared for a relationship to work. If not, the relationship is not necessarily doomed, but surely going to suffer under strains that could crack the foundation and bring it crumbling down.

Think of it this way: would you start a business without the training and knowledge to run it? Would you build a house without being trained in construction? Would you perform medical procedures without medical training? Probably not—you’d know that most likely, the results could be disastrous. To be successful at a relationship, you need to prepare your spirit— the most important part of you for connecting with others.

What is Spiritual Preparation?

Spiritual preparation doesn’t necessarily involve getting more religious or dogmatic. You don’t have to become a saint or wait until you’re as enlightened as the Buddha. The key to spiritual preparation is learning to know, accept and love yourself first. When you fix your relationship with yourself, you will be prepared for a healthy relationship with someone else.

What Does Spiritual Preparation Entail?

People’s needs vary, but preparation generally begins with healing from the past— abuse, illness, or loss. It doesn’t necessarily mean being cured; if you have a chronic condition that is incurable, part of your preparation may be learning to accept it and go on with your life.
The next stage is self-exploration; you go deep within to discover who you really are. There should be no judgment; it’s a process of honest discovery.

Reflect on what you learn about yourself. Accept yourself as an imperfect but trying human being. If you have qualities you thought of as weaknesses, turn them around and look at them as strengths. Instead of considering stubbornness a hindrance, realize you can use that tenacity to focus and work toward your goals. Instead of thinking yourself as overly-sensitive, realize this quality makes you a compassionate human being.

Make peace with yourself and who you are; and if there are things that you really don’t admire in yourself, begin working towards changing them. You are a work in progress.

Finally, you need to examine and distinguish between what you want and what you need, and learn to accept that what you want is sometimes exactly what you don’t need. It’s important to know this so you can know what to look for in a lover. It’s important to find someone who shares your values, and shares your vision of the future, so you can move forward together on your paths, side-by-side, hand-in-hand.

What Happens When You’re Spiritually Prepared

Once you are spiritually prepared, you’ll find that the universe opens the door to a wealth of love for you. You’ll not only meet your potential life mate, but you’ll find you make friends more easily and even your relationship with family members will begin to improve.
The single most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself; once you nurture and fix yourself, you will find it much easier to connect with others and nurture those relationships in a healthy way.

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